Purity is central to a Virgo’s being, but how does this fit into their sexuality? Sex can be a complicated experience for a Virgo, as they often struggle to find the balance between the madonna/whore dichotomy. At their core, a Virgo is healthy and pure, but if you learn to gain a Virgo’s trust, someone who is totally wild and freaky will undoubtedly emerge. Do you want to know more about a Virgo in bed? Then read on to discover what it’s really like to have sex with a Virgo:
The energy a Virgo brings to the bedroom
Virgos have an air of purity and health. If you had to cast them as a character in a porn movie, they would either be the nerdy school teacher or the innocent virgin.
This innocence lends itself to their sex appeal, as they can be naughty while appearing completely ignorant of their sexual prowess. They’re the type of person who bats their eyelashes while feeling you under the table.
A Virgo is a very analytical person and they think about every little detail. Every moment they experience is measured, monitored and considered. There’s nothing a Virgo hasn’t already considered in her mind.
This is why sex is such a powerful tool for them to step out of their overthinking and truly become more present in their bodies. Making love is truly a form of escapism for a Virgo and can help them let go of their need for control.
They can finally be in the moment without all the overthinking. Through sex they learn how to be spontaneous and discover the joy of not having to plan every little detail of their lives.
Virgos have a clear mission in life and that is to serve others. This makes them quite an attentive and caring lover. They are very interested in pleasing their partner and making them happy in the bedroom.
What turns a Virgo off in the bedroom?
Virgos are known for their cleanliness and concerns about health and well-being. This makes it pretty clear that a Virgo’s biggest turn-off is when someone is unhygienic or careless when it comes to their health, especially their sexual health.
They don’t want to be with someone who doesn’t get tested regularly or who likes to have unprotected sex. This would really make Virgo feel unsafe, which is a big no-no in their book. They need to be with someone responsible.
They hate sloppy sex or someone who doesn’t put in the effort. At the very least, they expect their partner to be showered and clean!
They also find it unpleasant when their partner is not flexible or open-minded in the bedroom. They like to try new things and explore their sexuality through experimentation. A partner who is too set in his ways can be a big turn-off for a Virgo.
They are a mutable sign, which means they are actually very open to compromise and like to mix things up. But this should come as a surprise, as most people would describe Virgo as quite strict and structured. However, this is not the case in the bedroom.
Virgos also hate sleeping with someone who doesn’t have honest intentions for them. They don’t mind a one night stand or a casual date, but they especially don’t like it when someone pretends to want more in their pants. They appreciate people who are simple and honest.
What turns a Virgo on in the bedroom
Being an earth sign makes a Virgo naturally sensual and tactile. They know a thing or two about touch and satisfying the senses. One of their biggest thrills is when their partner helps them relax with a massage after a long day at work. Major brownie points!
Virgos tend to do a lot for others and will go out of their way to make the people in their lives feel comfortable and cared for. So when they meet someone who makes the effort to do the same for them, it really sparks something in them. They like to be appreciated and the effort they put in is reciprocated.
Virgos are also quite intellectual, so having their mind stimulated or surprised during sex is a great turn on for them. Therefore, it is good for the partner to keep it spicy and add some variety every now and then. This keeps Virgo guessing and coming back for more.
Exploring and experimenting with different positions or adding sex toys to the mix is a wonderful way to achieve this. Virgos are much more open-minded than they get credit for and often have very interesting kinks that get them going.
There are some Virgos who like to be submissive and like to worship or be a slave to their partner. While other Virgos tend to be more dominant and like to be in control, both in and out of the bedroom. BDSM tends to be a common kink among Virgos.
They also enjoy role-playing and dressing up during sex. Think of a naughty school teacher or a sexy nurse. Virgos like uniforms and pretend to be someone other than themselves. It is a form of escapism and helps them let go of the need to always be in control.
Virgos are often quite curious individuals and therefore tend to engage in quite a bit of voyeurism. They are curious about how other people like to have sex and therefore find it quite sexy when their partner masturbates in front of them. It drives them wild with lust.
But their main turn-on is probably a partner who takes care of their health as well as their appearance. They want to be with someone who puts in a little effort and looks good while doing it. When it comes down to it, turning a Virgo on seems pretty easy.
