There are times when you are afraid to express your opinion and speak from your heart. It’s not so much because you’re afraid of what you might say.
Instead, you’re afraid of what might happen after you say it. That is why you avoid making certain statements that you may find threatening.
That’s why you’ll want to dive deep into it so you can stop worrying about the consequences of saying certain things.
So, what are you most afraid of when you say it? Let’s find out based on your zodiac sign and why you’re afraid to say the things you should say more often.
What’s the one thing you’re afraid to say?
Aries – I really missed you
Aries, you are the type who prefers to be very independent, and the last thing you ever want to see yourself as needy. You don’t want others to see that about you too. However, when you are away from someone you care about for a while, you still miss them very much.
That’s why that’s the phase you have to say to the one you miss. You have to tell them you miss them. What’s the worst that can happen if you say that?
That they want to be near you more often, which endangers your autonomy. That probably won’t happen. And you can never forget that you can tell them that you prefer to be alone at certain times.
Just because you tell someone you’ve missed them doesn’t mean they’ll stick with you.
Taurus – I need help with this task
Taurus, you work very hard and stubbornly, and you are the one who is so persistent that you keep working on a task until you complete it. You too keep going, despite obstacles that come your way.
However, there are times when the barriers are so great that they block your progress, leaving you with no choice but to lean on someone else to help you get the job done.
You’ll have to accept that reality, which means asking someone to help you complete the task. Asking someone for help doesn’t make you lazy or less persistent.
Some things are impossible to achieve alone, and that’s what you need to remember. Everyone needs help sometimes.
Gemini – I like you more than a friend
Gemini, you are friendly and versatile, but you fear commitment, and at the same time you also fear rejection.
How many times have you been with someone you liked more than a friend, but you never said anything and ended up losing their friendship or watching them hook up with someone else while it broke your heart? What will happen if you openly talk to a friend about the fact that you like him or her more than a friend?
The worst that can happen is that you enter or reject a committed relationship, hurting your feelings. Chances are one of those scenarios is likely, but in life you have to take risks.
Cancer – I never stopped caring about you
Cancer, you are the most emotional one there is because you have the most nurturing sign of the zodiac. However, you are the one who cares about others so much that they can feel smothered by it.
Therefore, they often have to separate themselves from you, and you will interpret that as them not being grateful and not caring enough about you. Unfortunately, some are ungrateful and take your love and generosity for granted.
But no matter who you see hurting you, you’ll give them the cold shoulder because you can’t stand someone taking you for granted or pushing you aside after being so kind to them.
At the same time, you still care about them, and nothing will change that. If you get into an argument with someone who you think is taking your kindness for granted, tell him or her that you have continued to care for him or her. You can’t be afraid that they will do that to you again.
Leo – I can’t imagine my life without you
Leo, you are the one who focuses too much on your needs and you want to be in the spotlight. You don’t have a great way to show that you care about having someone in your life because on the outside it seems like all you want is something that makes you happy. Therefore, it may seem that you only hang out with friends who have benefits.
However, that is not the truth. You may not have any good way to show that you care other than being generous and warm-hearted, but that is far from the truth. You want those you care about to share joy and excitement with you.
So the next time a friend of yours tells you that he or she thinks you’re taking him or her for granted, tell them that’s far from the truth as you cherish your friendship with them. That’s because you can’t imagine your life without them.
Virgo – I really need you
Virgo, you are analytical, focused and don’t show your emotions too much because you are not in tune with them. However, that doesn’t mean you don’t have feelings, even if you are good at hiding them.
You hide them through your work ethic and by cleaning and organizing your home. Your friends may disappear from your life because they think you have no use for them, because you don’t show emotions and you are very focused on your work.
But like everyone else, you need company, and your friends offer you a lot. Otherwise, tell them if you have a friend who disappears because they think you have no use for him.
Tell them you need them and that you value their friendship. Even explain to them that you are the way you are because of your nature, even though you care deeply about them.
Libra – I wish to be your friend/partner again
Libra, you want balance and you invest heavily in your relationships. Therefore, they are essential to you, but at the same time you may find that people, including partners, disappear from your life because you are indecisive and do not like to get involved in conflicts.
That’s why they leave you, and you don’t say how much you wish they would give you other opportunities. But most of all, you want them to give you another chance and remain friends with you or your loved ones.
The point is that they are not mind readers, and if you admitted to them that making decisions and getting into arguments causes you a lot of stress, they would have a better understanding of who you are.
Scorpio – I’m sorry
Scorpio, you are intense and very passionate. However, you are also secretive and have difficulty trusting others. That means you have suspicions about those who never intended to hurt you in any way.
If you accuse them of doing something wrong or betraying you when they never did, they won’t think kindly of you.
They will even grow more distant towards you, especially since you are not the one apologizing for what you did. And this often happens because your ego gets in the way.
However, you need to tell them that you are sorry for wrongly accusing them of things they never did, and you know it.
Sagittarius – I’m sorry for being selfish
Sagittarius, you have a fire sign, which means you are passionate, and you also forget about the needs of others, like Leo and Aries.
That’s why you’re the one who should focus on an exciting adventure you planned for the weekend, such as wall climbing, instead of taking your mother to the doctor because she wasn’t feeling well and has no one else to take with her . her. So that’s an example of what you would do.
You focus too much on your needs and need for excitement, and you have to learn to compromise. Therefore, you will have to tell people like your mother and everyone else that you refused to help because you focused on your own wishes and regretted being selfish.
You know it too, which is why you need to humble yourself and apologize for being selfish.
Capricorn – I’m ready
Capricorn, you are the very ambitious one, and you also take the time to build something. You never want to take shortcuts; At the same time, though, you never know when you’ll be ready to do something.
You keep making plans because you make sure you don’t miss a step toward achieving your goal. However, you have a slight fear of commitment when it comes to your relationships.
It doesn’t matter if your friends invite you for a weekend getaway and you decline because you don’t know if you’re ready to join in because you have too many other things to finish.
Or if your partner wants to take the next step in your relationship. You don’t know if you’re ready to do those things. But sometimes you’re ready and you’re still afraid to say it because the idea of taking the next step scares you.
Then, if you allow fear to keep you from saying you’re ready, you’ll regret it later. When you are ready to take the next step with someone, you need to discuss it.
Aquarius – My dreams mean nothing if you’re not in them
Aquarius, you are progressive, a visionary and the type that likes to be independent and unique, and you want to do your thing without anyone or anything interfering. But the point is: you get lonely, just like everyone else.
Because you have trouble getting in touch with your feelings, you don’t acknowledge them. If you have a close friend or partner who you are distant from because you are so focused on your dreams and visions, you may lose them because you seem so distant.
If only you had told them that your dreams mean nothing if they are not in the picture, you might have saved your relationship. Too bad you didn’t say it when you had the chance.
Pisces – I forgive you
Pisces, you are intuitive, dreamy and emotional. You will also be the one to put your life on hold to help others. The point is that you tend to hold grudges for small crimes that others do without malicious intent, such as accidentally breaking something of yours.
Some actions are truly unforgivable, but something like this is not. But you may be angry with them for a long time and become passive-aggressive, until you know deep down that you need to forgive them when they have made a mistake. If you keep up your cold and sarcastic ways, you will lose them.
But you really don’t want to do that, and to save your friendship or any relationship, tell him or her that you forgive him or her, even if it’s hard to say those words.
Everyone is afraid to say specific phrases, even if they are necessary to save a relationship or to say something when it comes to your needs and wants.
It’s a shame when you consider that so many unnecessary relationship losses occur as a result of not speaking and saying words that could make all the difference in the world.
The idea can be quite intimidating, but if a relationship is essential to you, you should tell them something that will improve the relationship, save it, or make your needs and wants known.
Otherwise there will be losses and regrets.
