Is 2023 the summer of love?
Well, that certainly can be the case, as long as you know what to do and what not to do when trying to woo your sweetheart or lure your long-time lover into the bedroom!
Each astrology chart is like a unique fingerprint, but understanding the basic turns for each of the signs could be the make-or-break moment for your love life this summer.
So here are the biggest turn-offs for each zodiac sign:
So scroll down and find the signs that are in your crush’s big three so you know what not to do the next time you’re feeling sexy and flirty around him or her.
Ram
Aries is a sign that moves hard and fast through life, they are not ones to stop and smell every rose that crosses their path. So when it comes to lovers, they get a kick out of the same kind of speed and the passion that comes with it.
Slow prodding and people who can’t make up their minds and fall in love with them right away won’t last long.
Taurus
If there’s one thing at the top of the list that a Taurus needs to get in the mood for love, it’s good mood lighting!
I don’t know a single Taurus who isn’t a connoisseur of candles and decorative lights and lamps, so I wouldn’t suggest making your big move while the two of you are under fluorescent lights. It may sound crazy to you, but this one simple trick can make or break your Taurus crush!
Twin
Nothing is sexier than good banter between lovers for a Gemini, so anyone who takes their cheeky banter too seriously will put an abrupt end to their amorous emotions.
Getting into the mood is like playing a round of table tennis, you need to be able to play volleyball back and forth to set the mood for this air sign.
Cancer
Cancer is the zodiac’s divine caretaker and lover, so it goes without saying, but cruelty and general meanness are a huge turn-off for this water sign.
Being sensitive not only to their own feelings but also to the feelings of others, you need to be on your best behavior around a Cancer because they will not tolerate rudeness, let alone invite you into their bedroom if you become a jerk.
Lion
Trust me, it’s actually quite easy to stay in a Leo’s good graces and if your feelings are genuine, it’s not hard to make them fall for you! The only thing that will ruin your chances with a Leo is if you play it too cold with them.
Leo is ruled by the heart and when they love, they love big, so if you give them the cold shoulder for too long, they will take you off the roster for good.
Virgin
Virgos are the secret freaks of the zodiac; you’d be so lucky if you took one to bed with you! That said, there’s a very simple rule you need to adhere to to ensure you get a return invite: take your hygiene seriously.
As an Earth sign, Virgo expects a certain level of cleanliness that sometimes goes beyond normal standards, but in order to do the things they want to do in bed, you definitely need to carefully clean every nook and cranny!
Scale
A key way to turn off a Libra is to ignore being mean to someone and pointing out their flaws so they can lower their standards and love you more.
It’s a very sloppy way to hit on someone, but when it comes to winning over a fair and balanced Libra, nothing is less sexy than ignoring!
Scorpion
Scorpios have a unique way of finding out the truth in a given situation, so it’s not a good idea to try to bed them by lying to them.
Any kind of dishonesty will cause a real rift between you and your Scorpio crush, but especially if the lie has to do with your preferences and skills in the bedroom, so fake doms needn’t apply!
Archer
There’s no quicker way to get ghosted by a Sagittarius than to take them on a boring date.
This isn’t the kind of person who comes back for more just because of an afternoon of sipping coffee, so try to think of something more exciting to keep them occupied.
Oh, and make sure you keep your distance, because clinginess isn’t sexy at all for these fire signs.
Ibex
Rule number 1 when it comes to pursuing your Capricorn crush is that you have to be trustworthy. Nothing is less sexy than showing up late for a date or canceling the day of it.
Capricorns value their time and expect it to be respected in return. If you can’t follow these simple rules, you’ll be kicked off the team before you’re even allowed on the field.
Aquarius
Aquarius places a high value on friendship, so love can often take a backseat. They feel more comfortable going on relaxed and simple dates, without the pressure to rush into a relationship.
So nothing scares them more than someone who falls in love on the first date. Avoid overly wishy-washy text messages or they’ll run away faster than Usain Bolt!
Fishing
Pisces people feel things very deeply and have a sensitivity to energy that is unmatched by any of the other signs, because of this they tend to live quite a dreamy existence.
An easy way to turn off a Pisces is to be too realistic, set boundaries where they aren’t necessary, and pressure them to become more practical. Live in the realm of whimsy when you’re in the mood for Pisces!
