Pisces are the artists and dreamers of the zodiac. As a water sign, Pisces have an enormous source of emotions at their disposal at any time, which makes them romantic by nature.
They have a keen eye for beauty and can see it where others cannot, such as in the raindrops that fall on the cement streets, the crinkles around someone’s eyes when they laugh, and even in the silence that falls after a fight.
To be in love with a Pisces you need an open heart and a creative mind, but scroll down and read on to see how you can romance the Pisces in your life!
Pisces Sun: acts of service
Our sun sign tells us about the basic building blocks of our lives and personality, so understanding this placement gives us insight into our partners’ values. Pisces Suns value emotional depth, romantic passion, art and fantasy, as well as empathy for all living things. They have a big heart and can’t help but feel deeply for others, animals and nature. To be in love with a Pisces is to be in love with life itself!
The best way to perform acts of service for a Pisces Sun is to make space for their sometimes turbulent emotional world. Being human means feeling the wide range of human emotions, and sometimes it can feel like you’re on a roller coaster when you love Pisces. Be there to listen without judging or giving advice. Helping with simple tasks such as folding laundry or picking up dinner when they are too overwhelmed will promote trust and a sense of security in the relationship.
Pisces moon: quality time
Our moon sign tells us about our general mood throughout our lives and how we prefer to be cared for. A Pisces moon is a challenging moon to find stability in, as it tends to soak up the energy and moods of everything and everyone around it like a sponge. As a water sign, Pisces is most like the ocean: vast, cruel, temperamental and beautiful. Loving a Pisces moon means being a sailor, in love with the sea but deeply respectful of your place in the waters.
Quality time with your Pisces moon lover is relevant. Feelings trump facts with this water sign, so your Pisces moon partner will only feel as safe as their last interaction with you. Making sure you respect the time you spend with them requires empathy, honesty, and lots of hugs.
Pisces Mercury: words of affirmation
Our Mercury signs give us insight into how we think, how we process information and how we communicate this information to the people around us. We’ve all heard that communication is key in a relationship, but so is understanding. That’s why understanding your partner’s Mercury sign is so important! Pisces is a mutable sign, meaning they are adaptable and open to new ideas. As a partner, it is important to know that their thoughts, feelings and opinions are always subject to change, so do not try to control them with any form of rigidity.
Every relationship requires words of affirmation, you should never assume that your partner has heard “I love you.” at often, especially if you’re dating a Pisces Mercury! What is important to keep in mind is the way we convey our thoughts and feelings, although for example just saying “I love you” may not be enough. Don’t forget to look them in the eye, kiss their forehead, or rub their back, or write it on a post-it so they can find it later when they’re alone. The rendering of the words is just as important as the words themselves.
Pisces Venus: giving gifts
Venus itself is the planet of love and beauty, so it’s clearly a planet you need to learn to understand better in order to keep love alive in a relationship. Since both Neptune and Jupiter are the ruling planets of this sign, fantasy and romance are incredibly important for a Pisces-Venus. This placement will make you long for the kind of love you see in movies and read in books, and while that’s not entirely realistic, it doesn’t mean you have to give up your storybook romance completely!
Venus also rules gifts, so the perfect gifts to give a Pisces-Venus will be more about memories than price tags. A handmade gift will always win more favor than an expensive gift for this water sign. Showing your love through gift giving is less about giving things to your partner and more about showing that you are thinking about them even when you are apart. Make it a blanket, frame a photo of a cherished memory, or just pick some flowers while you’re out for a walk to give them to them. Creating more memories with your special someone is what will make this love last!
Pisces Mars: physical affection
Mars rules our more primal emotions and whims, because it is the planet of war and lovemaking. When it comes to relationships, understanding Mars is about understanding how to keep the passion alive long after the thrill of newness has left the relationship. When it comes to following your instincts, Pisces Mars is all about the heart. These people are dreamy, non-confrontational and emotionally driven. They support the underdog and have the spirit of a philanthropist, who wants to save the world one day at a time.
Physical affection is important in any romantic relationship, but it’s important to remember that your Pisces Mars partner may be more touchy than most. Their bodies are on high alert due to their sensitive nature, so make sure to always ask before touching them, and ask them what will feel good today. They easily get into sensory overload, but at the same time a relaxing massage from their partner is often necessary and welcome!