When you are around your loved one or the person you want to build a serious relationship with, you may inadvertently push him/her away because your emotions are getting too out of control. And at the same time, you might not even be sure of yourself, so you might say or do something that will turn them off.
And when that happens, you have to cut yourself some slack. It happens to the best of us because no one is perfect. You can always talk to them a second time and be honest that your emotions have gotten out of hand, and if they are worth the time and energy, they will understand. Let’s see how you can scare your crush based on your zodiac sign.
Aries – comes on too strong
Aries, you are passionate, and no one can deny that. However, you have a tendency to spiral out of control when you are around the one you like. You may end up asking too many personal questions and being too direct in other ways, such as asking to spend private time with him or her after dinner, which will only serve to draw your crush away from you. stays away.
Moreover, you want to get things done quickly and you tend to rush into things that are part of your nature. However, if you want to build a relationship with your crush, taking it slow is the only way to do it.
Taurus – Can be too judgmental
Taurus, you need stability, but you also want everything your way since you are not the flexible type. If you like someone more than a friend and want to build a relationship with them, you want them to literally be the perfect match for you.
That means you tend to become overly judgmental and critical because they may not wear the type of clothes you like, or they may not share the same taste in music as you. And if you come across as judgmental towards the things your crush likes, they will only see you as a bully instead of someone who is interested in dating them! Remember, you have to be flexible when it comes to your loved one’s tastes!
Gemini – You can flirt with anyone
Gemini, you are a social being, and that is in your nature. You also like to talk and chat, and the problem is that you will treat your crush the same way you treat others. You will get flirty with them. If you only flirted with your lover, he would enjoy it and respond well to you.
But you tend to be that way with everyone, and if your loved one sees that as the case, they’ll think you’re a player and won’t want anything to do with you. So, instead of being flirtatious, ask them questions about their likes and dislikes, and show genuine interest in them without asking personal questions.
Cancer – doesn’t take charge
Cancer, you are sentimental and very emotional, and you are so caring. But how can you build a relationship if you don’t take the lead? Aries comes on too strong and you don’t show any initiative. Even though Aries isn’t the opposite sign (although it is incompatible), it’s like you’re the opposite of Aries.
You may be very interested in your loved one, but you don’t show it. And your crush may think you’re not interested in him or her, so he or she won’t pursue you. Unless they understand your type, they will help you open up more. More often than not, however, that doesn’t happen.
Leo – Forces their will on them
Leo, you need to be in the spotlight and you want your opinion to be heard. However, when you are in love with someone, you like to shift the spotlight to that person. However, that doesn’t mean you are tolerant of their opinions, likes and dislikes.
Therefore you will impose your views and your will on them. You’re invalidating them without meaning to, and that alone will turn off your loved one. And scaring them off isn’t even the right term. It will probably turn them off and they will never want anything to do with you again. You must learn to be tolerant of the opinions of others.
Virgo – is too insecure and lacks originality
Virgo, you are known for being very analytical and therefore you are insecure. You analyze everything you do during your dates or around your crush. You can do things like apologize when you don’t have to, and that alone can turn your crush off because they can sense your insecurity.
However, if they give you the chance and you go out, all you want to do is do traditional things like go out to dinner and then go to the movies. Your loved one will be bored and will no longer have the desire to date you.
Libra – You start talking about marriage too quickly
Libra, you are the one who is all about relationships, and you are also the one who loves romance, but you also speed up your relationships. That means on your first or second date. Then you’ll talk about marriage. This is how you can scare your crush.
You can’t talk about making such a commitment if you barely know your partner, and not only will that make him or her feel pressure, but you also need to get to know the partner better before talking about marriage. You don’t start talking about that on your first day or even your first month of dating. However, this is recommended after the first year.
Scorpio – You show jealousy
Scorpio, you are intense and you feel things very deeply. That’s in your nature. And you also have trust issues, which is why you first have difficulty trusting your partner before you know him or her well. You are also incredibly loyal, as you would expect your partner to be just as reliable.
However, you may be possessive and show jealousy if you suspect that your partner is not paying you full attention. If they talk to a friend of the opposite sex (or the same), you will show signs of jealousy. Your crush will catch on, and they won’t want to be with someone who will have trouble trusting them to that extent.
Sagittarius – You can be affectionate
Sagittarius, you love to go on adventures and you have an independent streak. As a result, you usually shy away from commitment, but that doesn’t mean you don’t want a relationship. And when you feel like you’ve found the right partner, you might want to spend time with them all the time to the point where they run out of room to do their thing.
As a result, you may come across as clingy, which is not typical. However, if you start acting like you always need your partner’s presence in yours, it will be a turn-off for him or her.
Capricorn – You can be too pessimistic
Capricorn, you are very diligent and you take everything seriously. You put a lot of work into your business or job and relationships. However, there is one problem that you often struggle with, and you tend to see the glass as half empty.
You may think you are being realistic about what the world is like, but you are doing so from a pessimistic perspective. And if you show that to your crush or your new partner, it will scare them away. Everyone needs to see the world, but you are often a downer. If you add some cautious optimism to your expressions, it would be a much better balance.
Aquarius – Your moods are all over the map
Aquarius, you love your individuality and you have a progressive side. You are distant, but you also want relationships because you are human, and you need those connections. However, since you’re the one marching to your drummer, you can be moody too. One moment you are happy and cheerful.
The next moment you are sarcastic and can be condescending even though you don’t mean to come across that way. Then you can suddenly be in a bad mood. Therefore, your unpredictable moods will scare your crush away. If you can’t help it at all, you should take it into account and tell your loved one in advance. If they are patient, they will persevere.
Pisces – You have trouble dealing with reality
Pisces, you are a dreamer, and you are sensitive, and the truth is that you don’t like to face reality when it is unpleasant, which is often the case. You’d like to run away and stay on some fantasy island. The truth is that this will scare your loved one because even though some realities are harder to deal with than others, they do need to be addressed.
And if your crush sees that you keep running away from the realities of life, they will abandon you. They need someone they can work with when it comes to hardship, not someone who keeps trying to escape it.
If you recognize any of these traits, even if they don’t match your sun sign (they’re more likely to match your moon or rising sign than your sun sign), don’t be hard on yourself. Instead, consider it a revelation. If you’ve been unknowingly causing your crushes or new partners to ghost you or withdraw from you, you may now be able to identify the problem. And if you’ve been that crush who has experienced any of these things, you know what your ex or the person you went on a few dates with struggled with in that case.
