Falling for cancer? Interested in one? Do you want to get to know the special Cancer in your life a little better? This gentle water sign can be very changeable and therefore quite difficult to understand at times. After all, they are ruled by the moon.
But beneath their defense is a soft and vulnerable human being, one who is willing to give everything of himself and who truly believes in love. Dating a Cancer will sometimes feel like dating a new person every day of the week – they definitely know how to keep things interesting.
They also won’t shy away from showing you how much they care – you’ll always feel safe and nurtured by your adoring Cancer!
Here’s what else you need to know about being with a Cancer.
Dating a cancer
When you start dating a Cancer, you might be overwhelmed by their romantic side. They make you feel truly seen, loved, heard and valued. You can really feel their presence with you during a date, and they will go out of their way to listen and empathize. This is not the kind of sign that will haunt you or run away, although they do sometimes take their time to go into their shells and retreat. When this happens, it’s best to let them know you’re there, when they’re feeling more social. This shot is their recharge time so they can give as much as they do. When they’re ready to come out of their shells, they’ll be just as warm and loving as they’ve always been, ready to take you out and romance you.
Communicating with a Cancer
Since Cancer is a water sign, they prefer to communicate with feelings and emotions. This is a remarkably intuitive sign, so don’t be surprised if they notice what you’re thinking and experiencing if you even have to say one word. It can be wonderful to be so well understood by another human being. Be warned, though: People with cancer need the same kind of treatment. If they feel that there is no empathy for them and that their needs are not being met, they can get a little grumpy! It will take some time to learn what your sensitive Cancer needs, but once you know it, it’s not that hard to figure out and communicate with. They will appreciate it if you talk to them with the intention of understanding, rather than attacking. If they feel attacked, expect a total retreat with some grumpy lashings to let you know they’re not happy. So be careful when you want to bring something up, and do it in a soft, gentle, and empathetic way.
How a cancer shows their love
Cancers show their love and care for you in very healthy, emotional ways. They are happy to cook you a meal, for example according to their grandmother’s famous recipe. Inviting you to their house is also an important sign that they like you, so don’t miss this opportunity to connect. For this zodiac sign, love happens right in their own sacred space. Moving on, the Cancer will probably ask you to move in with them, which is the ultimate sign of their love and care for you. Once you’re all together, nights of good food, cuddles, and a deep emotional connection are their chosen love language.
What turns off a cancer
Since this is such an emotional, intuitive sign, it’s a major turn-off for Cancer if there’s no heart-to-heart connection. If you are someone who is more stubborn and prefers to analyze things, then this relationship may be a bit challenging for you, as your Cancer will probably insist on building a strong emotional connection. Another turn off for most Cancers is when there is no interest in building a house or family together, as this is probably something they want to have sometime in the future. Even when they are in a travel phase – which most Cancers love – they crave that certainty. Cancers also like it when you “need” them, so if you’re someone who is overly independent, this can be a bit of a turnoff. Why don’t you try asking them for something small? The way their face lights up will be worth the awkwardness – plus it’s exciting when they feel like they can take care of you.
Cancer strengths
You may have already heard that Cancers are very caring, sensitive and caring. These are some of their very best qualities, making them easy to love. They know exactly when you’re feeling down and run around to make sure you’re taken care of. They make you a nourishing cup of tea, tuck you in a blanket and are happy to listen to your problems, offering empathy and advice when needed. Their ability to understand your feelings is something that should never be taken for granted. Their other strength is their creativity and imagination, not to mention their sentimentality. This is a zodiac sign that allows you to take a walk through the past and laugh at the past while creating a future to die for. Cancers always make you feel like you can turn to someone who feels safe. They go out of their way to make sure you never feel like you’re alone. This is someone who will always be on your team, regardless of their mood or personal situation. Even if they are not always immediately available, when they are there for you, they are there for you one hundred percent.
Weaknesses of cancer
The same thing that makes Cancer so strong also makes them a little weak: their emotions. Being such a “feeling” sign can sometimes come at the expense of Cancer, as they can get caught up in the trap of their own emotional experiences, which can lead to them becoming rather grumpy, moody, and feisty. Being around Cancer when they’re wallowing in a mood isn’t a pleasant experience, and you usually just need to give them plenty of space. Whatever you do, don’t attack them, because another Cancer weakness is that they are often incapable of handling confrontation. They will bypass it and instead lash out in a passive-aggressive manner, which can prove to be very annoying for the person on the receiving end. This is also a sign that tends to carry a grudge in them, and one of their biggest problems is that they can’t openly talk about anything. This can certainly be seen as a weakness of theirs, and trying to pry this sign open is challenging – patience is definitely key when dealing with the sensitive Cancer.
Most compatible symptoms with Cancer
Of course, water signs are always most compatible with watery Cancer. Most notably Scorpio, who also shares a hard exoskeleton, like Cancer, and has a soft underbelly. Both signs are quite self-protective, so they will understand each other well. These signs know that behind the mask is someone just as sensitive and vulnerable as each other, and just as deep. However, with all this said, Cancers benefit the most from having earth signs such as Taurus, Capricorn, or Virgo. Taurus is a particularly good sign for Cancer, as it is very consistent and patient with this water sign’s powerful moods. Capricorn, the opposite of Cancer, is a little less compatible, but as they say, opposites attract! Finally, Aries is a little-known sign that often works with Cancer, strange as that sounds. Yes, fire and water are usually not a good mix, but there’s something special about these two signs. There is loyalty, caring and a willingness to stick up for each other, which is wonderful to see.
Least compatible symptoms with Cancer
One of the most incompatible signs with Cancer probably has to be Sagittarius. While these two can enjoy a lot of travel and adventure together, the Cancer can prove to be a bit overly sensitive to this fire sign. Sagittarius just say it like it is, often quite tactless and overly brash, which will end up hurting the sensitive Cancer’s feelings in the long run. Of course, the Cancer might also need to get a thicker skin if he wants to be with someone who is so directly into the Sagittarius. Another incompatible sign with Cancer is Aquarius, who can be a little distant and cold to the feeling-oriented Cancer. Aquarius just wants to do their own thing, and may find Cancer too needy or clingy for their taste. This is likely to make Cancer feel even more insecure in the long run – there are people who are much better suited to the Crab. At best, the Aquarius and the Cancer can have crazy, crazy, fun moments together or even learn from each other how to balance head and heart. But it will take quite a bit of work.
