When it comes to an Aries’ love language, passion, excitement, and a little bit of danger are the bread and butter of a successful relationship.
As the first sign of the zodiac, these Aries are quite independent, yet they have a deeply romantic nature.
Aries is a fire sign, so the prospect of love is something that sets them on fire.
Aries Sun: Acts of service
Your sun sign dictates your values and fundamental characteristics, so an Aries Sun is someone who is industrious, enterprising, and pretty punk rock when it comes to going against the norms of modern life. They are happiest when they are in control of their lives and free from obligations, but that doesn’t change how much they love being in love, it just means that they prefer to love without limitations.
Service is a necessary part of any partnership. It’s important to show your partner that he or she can rely on you to help you through good times and bad. Aries Suns are fiercely independent, but sometimes the details of life are too much for them to handle, so it can be a good idea to ask if you can help them get their chores done or clean their apartment if they have also gotten themselves exhausted.
Aries Moon: Quality Time
Your moon sign relates to the way you prefer to be cared for, as well as your overall mood throughout your life. Aries moons will feel their feelings fully and powerfully and yet move through those big feelings quickly. They transmute their emotions quite quickly, so they can be irritated one minute and completely peaceful the next!
Quality time is an important part of romantic love, but not all quality time is the same. For an Aries moon person, the time we spend together should be honest, expressive, and maybe even a little on the exciting/dangerous side. Aries have a sense of adrenaline and a penchant for brutal honesty, so you’ll need to keep up with their energetic spirit if your love is to last. Try planning exciting dates, such as whitewater rafting, ax throwing or doing an escape room.
Aries Mercury: words of affirmation
Your Mercury sign tells you about how you think and process information, as well as your specific communication style. As the first sign of the zodiac, Aries Mercury tends to talk first and think later. They are passionate and can often be quite loud, but at the end of the day they are also big, charming idiots.
We’ve heard it said time and time again that communication is the cornerstone of a good relationship, but understanding is the secret second step needed. An Aries Mercury person says exactly what he thinks and feels, so it’s important to take what he says at face value. At the same time, you have to make sure you’re honest (read: passive aggression doesn’t work for them) and say exactly what you think.
Aries Venus: Giving gifts
Venus is the planet of love and beauty, so our Venus signs tell us what attracts us to other people. Venus in Aries goes in and out of love quickly, they live for that tempting spark of love and romance but tend to run away once that spark goes out. They are romantic people, but they won’t sacrifice their time or freedom for something that isn’t fun and sexy.
Venus rules gifts, because it is the planet to look at if you want to better understand someone’s tastes. Aries Venus prefers gifts that are fun and even useful. For example, many Aries-Venus’ will love receiving a switchblade or other knife as a gift. They usually don’t care about the price tags either, free or cheap items will make them just as happy as something super expensive.
Aries Mars: physical affection
Mars is the planet of sex and war; it’s about our primal desires and instincts. Mars also happens to be the ruling planet of Aries, so people with this placement have a great source of energy at their disposal. They are often fierce competitors, seductive leaders, free thinkers, rebels and partiers. When it comes to sex, their appetite is almost insatiable!
Physical affection creates deeper emotional bonds in a relationship. The love language of physical touch is not specifically about sex, but refers to all the small and large gestures or physical connection and closeness we can give to each other. Aries Mars has a kind of rough energy, so they won’t always enjoy a delicate kiss or a light grab. You’ll know if your Aries Mars crush has heart eyes for you when they try to wrestle or even dare you to race them around the block. They are also big fans of bear hugs, the tighter the better!
