Gemini are some of the most exciting people in the zodiac. I’m not surprised that so many people find them irresistible. And as for Gemini sexuality…depending on their mood, it can often surprise you.
They are lively, playful and great fun to be around. But what is it like to sleep with one of these versatile people?
Sex with a Gemini is definitely something you have to experience, but keep reading to find out more and maybe get some tips on how to make the most of your time with him or her in the bedroom.
Gemini sexuality: the energy to the bedroom
A curious Gemini is someone who is open to everything, and I mean absolutely everything. Variety gets them going and you never know exactly what to expect when you’re in bed with one of the Zodiac twins.
You can be sure that sex with a Gemini will never be boring, they are kinky and always open to learning something new about themselves and their partner. Nothing gets them more excited than a new experience.
As far as compatibility goes, Geminis are known for their communication, and this certainly translates to the bedroom. If you want to turn your Gemini on, make sure you do lots of dirty talk during sex – this will drive them wild!
They are very clear and tell you exactly what they want from you, and believe me, they would love it if you would do the same for them. The more open and honest you can be with a Gemini, the stronger your connection can grow.
Their minds are often quite busy and full of ideas, so they often use sex as a form of stress relief as it really helps them get out of their heads and into their bodies. And being with a partner who understands this can really help them work through some of their fears.
What Turns a Gemini Off in the Bedroom?
As you know, Geminis love to talk, but they also like to use their mouths for other things, like kissing. However, nothing will turn off a Gemini more than a bad kisser. It’s an absolute no-no in their book.
They also cannot stand it when someone is not present and in the moment with them. What’s the point of making love if you’re just going through the motions? A Gemini wants to be with someone who enjoys being an active participant.
Enthusiasm is a big problem for them. I know it can be hard to match the vibrant and youthful energy of a Gemini, but someone who just doesn’t make an effort and tends to be a lazy lover is the last thing a Gemini would want. They want spice and excitement!
But what really turns a Gemini off is someone who is bad at communicating. They can’t stand it when someone can’t express what they want or what they think. Sure, Geminis are very good at communicating, but they are certainly not mind readers.
Plus, it really turns them on when their loved one can tell them exactly what they want. They find this assertiveness and progressiveness very attractive in a partner. So if someone plays coy and shy, that can unfortunately be a way to tick off a Gemini.
What turns a Gemini on in the bedroom?
Gemini is all about communication and that’s why they tend to be quite visual. Sure, they love to talk dirty and hear all your fantasies, but they also get a kick out of being able to look at their loved one and see how much they’re enjoying the moment with them.
If a Gemini can see what you’re doing, you’ve already won him over. You don’t have to be shy when it comes to sleeping with your Gemini lover. Even if it takes you out of your comfort zone, they will certainly appreciate you making the effort to please them.
A lot of Geminis attraction happens in the mind, if a person can turn on his brain then he is good to go. Having an intellectual connection with someone is really all a Gemini cares about when it comes to sex. If the conversation is good, everything else will fall into place.
One of the best things about a Gemini in the bedroom is that they seem to get turned on when they can turn their partner on. Luckily for you, they’re extremely skilled in the bedroom and know exactly which buttons to press to get you started.
But they have to to belong that you are having a good time. They need feedback because they want you to have the best time possible. So don’t be afraid to open your mouth and say what you want as this will definitely put a lustful grin on their face.
Dirty talk may be outside your comfort zone, but this is just one of those things that will always get your Gemini partner going. It may be a little cringe to try at first, but with practice you can definitely get good at it, and it will make you totally irresistible to your Gemini lover.
And because Geminis are so open-minded, you can come to them with all your wishes and fantasies, and they will always be open to trying it, no matter how strange. Gemini’s curiosity will always prevail, and they may even learn something about themselves. So never be shy to explore and experiment with your Gemini because ultimately this is what they want.
They will likely dive into research and learn every possible detail about the thing you want to make it the best possible experience for both of you. By giving them homework you can really get them excited about exploring a possible fantasy with you.
So remember: if you can turn on a Gemini’s mind, you’ve already hit the jackpot! Have fun and see what you can learn from the experience.
