You’ve probably heard of something called “Love Languages,” which describe how each of us expresses and receives love. But love and passion can be two different things, so how do you know how to express passion? What gets your engine going when you’re with someone you’re attracted to? What turns you on?
The planet that symbolizes passion, lust and physical attraction is Mars. His energy is what steps in once your Love Language is taken care of. Think of Love Languages as foreplay, and Mars as the action that follows! Mars is completely primal and is the planet that dictates libido, making us hot with desire.
Knowing your Mars sign is crucial to understanding this side of yourself. Better yet, check your bae’s Mars sign and find out what makes him tick. It will be like reading their minds!
So make sure you know where this planet is, for you or someone else, and let’s get started!
How Mars in Aries expresses passion
Mars is what is known as ‘dwelling place’ in the sign of Aries. This means that he is in his home sign where he feels most natural and comfortable. He rules the sign of Aries, you see. People with Mars in Aries are hot-blooded, passionate and usually have enormous libidos. You will be someone who wants it often, and wants it right now!
Your passion is best sparked when you have adventures together, when you are somewhat independent and when there are conflicts. In fact, the best way to express your passion is when you’re engaged in a fight, or perhaps competing with your loved one.
How Mars in Taurus expresses passion
Mars in Taurus is said to be a tricky place for this warlike planet – and it is, but overall it’s quite nice for the libido. See, Taurus is a sensual, slow-burning sign, which means the best way to express your passion is to take time with a loved one. There is no ‘goal’ for you – you just want to enjoy all your senses being stimulated.
You can be quite wild and primal, once you warm up, and you love to show your animal side! The downside of Mars here is that you can become a bit lazy if you put in the effort, and may prefer to stay on the couch rather than be up close and personal.
How Mars in Gemini expresses passion
Gemini is an air sign, so if Mars is placed here, you express your passionate side most through your words. Flirting, puns and stuff like that are what really gets you going. You need some building up, and you don’t jump into bed with someone who doesn’t match your intelligence.
A total win for you is someone who can make you laugh – you won’t find anything sexier than that. It is said that people with Mars in Gemini also love the idea of having a passionate affair with two people at the same time – polyamory is quite attractive to people with this placement!
How Mars in Cancer expresses passion
Mars is not at its strongest in the sign of Cancer, but that only seems to apply to things like work and family. Applied to passion and lust, this is one of the most wonderful placements you can get! It is emotionally deep and meaningful – you are someone who expresses passion in a very emotional way.
So you need a strong emotional connection to feel excited, and it’s also important that you feel safe with that person. So one-night stands aren’t really your thing because you usually end up getting hurt. Plus, the idea of having a real baby and starting a family is something you’ll probably get around to faster than anything else!
How Mars in Leo expresses passion
This is a terribly passionate placement for good old Mars! After all, Leo is a fire sign. Leo also happens to rule sexuality, so you’ll have a double whammy of pleasure with this placement – lucky you! The only problem with a Leo Mars is that you tend to express passion in such a forceful, open way that you could come across as selfish in the sack.
You know how to take care of your own needs and have no problem asking for what you want, but it’s important to listen to your loved one’s requests as well. This way everyone is happy: you are treated like the kings you are and your partner will also be more than satisfied.
How Mars in Virgo expresses passion
There is a saying about Virgo: ‘reserved on the streets, a freak in the sheets’. This is absolutely true. Once behind closed doors you have an animalistic, original side that will surprise even the most adventurous and ardent lovers! You express passion in a very methodical, careful way, taking the time to ensure that your loved one is completely satisfied and all their needs are met.
Nothing less than perfection will do, and your attention to detail will keep others coming back for more. You also love having a lover who can match not only your libido, but also your mind. A strong mental connection is important for a physical one.
How Mars in Libra expresses passion
This is another placement for Mars that is often said to be a bit malefic. But this is probably only when it comes to asserting yourself outside the bedroom or fighting for what you want at work. When it comes to passion, you are a master/mistress of desire!
You are a real flirt – this is the way you best express your passionate side – and you love to be loved by everyone. Sometimes you can’t decide who you really desire, which can lead to having to juggle more than one lover at a time! You love a good conversation, or even a debate, which is guaranteed to get you really excited!
How Mars in Scorpio expresses passion
This is an extremely strong and passionate placement for Mars – you’ve hit the jackpot! Not only can you be slow and steamy, but you also know the value of a quickie. Your loved one is lucky to have you, because he or she will always be completely satisfied – and exhausted – at the end of your meeting.
You can best express your passion when leather, whips or chains are involved and you will probably enjoy dominating. You may also find it a huge turn on if your partner is a mystery to you, if he or she is a little hard to get. Emotional connection, loyalty and devotion are also extremely important in letting go of control and feeling down.
How Mars in Sagittarius expresses passion
This is the last fire sign, but certainly not the least. When your Mars is in Sagittarius, you get a huge amount of passion – it seems endless! You best express your passionate side when you embark on a new adventure with your loved one – variety, variety, travel and fun stimulate your desire!
You also express yourself very honestly to your loved one, and you don’t like games (unless they are the fun type!). For you, passion is meant to be playful and light, not serious or heavy. Above all, you need spontaneity to feel voluptuous. When things become too boring or routine, you can quickly lose the spark.
How Mars in Capricorn expresses passion
This is a surprisingly passionate Mars sign. Most people think Capricorn is boring, but the opposite is true. People with Mars in Capricorn are actually very primal and earthy – your head rarely gets in the way of a physical experience, and you know how to fall completely into your body. Success excites you – you want to connect with people who are driven, motivated and ambitious.
You express your passion behind closed doors, in private. You will be careful, attentive and devoted to your loved one. You will also express your passionate side in a very primal way, and sensuality is what you will be very good at. You know how to stimulate all your senses and how to engage your loved one too. Swoon!
How Mars in Aquarius expresses passion
This is perhaps the most distant placement for Mars when it comes to expressing passion. Maybe you prefer to think, talk or read about passion rather than passion Doing It. And if you have a prospective lover, he/she will have to show you how intelligent he/she is before you feel the slightest attraction to him/her.
Once you’re engaged, express your passion in the most unique way by trying something new every time, or by suggesting that you bring a third, fourth, or tenth person into the bedroom. With Mars in Aquarius there is no possessiveness and you are open to it. You also have the kind of take-it-or-leave-it energy, which many will find extremely sexy.
How Mars in Pisces expresses passion
This is a beautiful placement for Mars, and you will express your passion in a soulful, mystical and imaginative way. You need a true connection to achieve your highest physical expression, but you must be careful not to mistake connection for abuse. Your boundaries can be weak, and that’s what you have to thank for these powerful, transformative experiences, but it can also hurt you if you’re not careful.
You are the type of person who likes to add music, the ocean, or mind-altering substances to your experience. Of course, again, you need to proceed with caution, as it’s all too easy to become addicted to the physical side of a relationship. You are a truly empathetic and caring lover, which will make your loved one truly appreciate you.
