Numerology is the study of the spiritual meaning of numbers. Numerology assigns a number to each letter of the alphabet to derive one digit for your name. This number is your Destiny number. The total of your birthday numbers reduced to one number is your life path number. These two numbers form the basis of your personal numerology. When you combine them, you derive your Soul Purpose number.
These three numbers guide your numerology in every aspect of your life. This article will focus on how grades apply to parenting. If you are a parent, you will definitely want to know your destiny, life path, and soul purpose numbers, as well as those numbers for your child or children.
Parenting, numerology style
It’s often said that we have a “parenting style” when we’re parents. That ‘style’ determines our decisions regarding our children and is part of the negotiation between what we want/expect from a child and what the child wants/expects from us as parents.
The basis for individual numerology is a basic complex of three numbers: the destiny number (from the name of your entire birth certificate), the life path number (from the total of your birth month, day and year), and your soul purpose number. (the total of your destiny number plus your life path number).
In short, the Destiny Number is what the world wants and expects from you. The life path number is how you best move through the world. And the Soul Purpose number represents the spiritual energy you need to develop and express in your life. Each number is nuanced in your role as a parent.
Keep in mind that you can be a mix of three different songs or the same song. In my numerology I am D3, LP4 and SP7. From a parenting perspective, the world will want me to teach and support my child’s creativity and imagination (D3), which I can do with consistent and reliable support (LP4), knowing that I must see parenting as part of my spiritual growth (SP7).
I have a daughter and her numerology is D9, LP11/2 and SP2. The world will expect her to give her wisdom (D9), as an individualist who can identify with everyone (LP11/2), whose goal is to connect people and with people (SP2). She is currently 15 and is already developing into a wonderfully creative artist.



She does her work on an iPad Air. She also taught herself video editing when she was twelve and I invested in an iMac and Final Cut Pro when she was thirteen (my LP4). I have encouraged her creativity (D3) and hope to complete a tarot deck project with her (SP7). Her art and creativity are her ways to bring her emerging wisdom (D9) to people’s attention both individually and collectively (LP11/2). And she makes friends easily and supports people (SP2).
Lottery numbers and parenting
Destiny Numbers guide children through the way the world wants parents to TEACH their children.
The parents’ lottery number | What they should teach their children |
1 | how to be an individual and have strong self-confidence |
2 | how to interact with others and be good partners in life |
3 | creativity, so that they can express themselves in life |
4 | how to establish themselves and build a solid foundation in life |
5 | the rest of the world and how to adapt to changes |
6 | compassion for others in need and how they can serve those less fortunate |
7 | how they can find their spiritual path and live it in their daily lives |
8 | how to exercise, manage and deal with power |
9 | how to identify and learn the wisdom they need to make great contributions to the world |
Life Path Numbers and Parenting
Life Path Numbers guide children through parental ACTION.
Parents’ life path number | What they should show their children |
1 | how to live a healthy individual life |
2 | how to live a healthy life in collaboration with someone else |
3 | the need for creativity, communication and hard work to succeed in life |
4 | how to build and establish themselves in the world |
5 | how to travel and adapt to changes in the world |
6 | how they can serve others through their service |
7 | spirituality through practicing their beliefs |
8 | power through the power they exercise or the powerlessness they have to endure |
9 | how wisdom affects the world through their wise or ignorant decisions and actions |
Soul purpose numbers and parenting
The Soul Purpose Number guides children to discover their soul purpose through the parent’s FULFILLED or UNFULFILLED life.
Soul purpose number of parents | What they need to do or achieve |
1 | individual to help their children as best as possible |
2 | lead a positive partner life to help their children as best as possible |
3 | live a creative life to help their children as best they can |
4 | live a stable and safe life to help their children as best as possible |
5 | live successful, ever-changing lives to help their children as best they can |
6 | find great joy in serving to help their children as best they can |
7 | find and live their spiritual path to help their children as best as possible |
8 | live a strong and positive life to help their children as best as possible |
9 | Live a wise life and advise others to help their children as best they can |