When you’re in a relationship with someone, sometimes you’ll unintentionally hurt their feelings by saying something you don’t mean. For example, it could be a friend or romantic partner about whom you might say something that is offensive. And chances are your friend or partner has said or done something that hurt your feelings.
For example, you may be hurt that your partner chose work instead of taking you to a medical appointment. Or you were hurt because a friend went out with a mutual friend without inviting you. So how do you respond to those things when they happen? Let’s see what happens if you hurt the feelings of the zodiac sign.
Aries – Will be irritable
Aries, you are the passionate one full of energy and fear. If someone hurts your feelings, you will be very irritable. You also won’t want to spend time with your partner or friend who hurts your feelings, which means you’ll lash out at him/her if he/she keeps trying to spend time with you.
You are usually very outspoken and will not hesitate to enter into a conflict, but if your feelings are hurt you may decide to keep it to yourself and focus on other things, such as your hobbies and career, to gain steam to blow off. Talking about it to the person who hurt you can cause even more stress unless he or she pushes you into it again.
Taurus – Will be sullen
Taurus, if your partner or friend hurts your feelings, you will react grumpily to them and you will also distance yourself from them. You can even give them the silent treatment, and you too will be the one to indulge in self-soothing behavior, such as relying on retail therapy, or you can indulge in a sweet or indulgent meal.
You are not the one to discuss the issue with them until you are ready. Your upset partner or friend will have to wait for you to come over to discuss the issue that happened and why you are hurt.
Gemini – Gossip about the one who hurt them
Gemini, you are very good at hiding your hurt feelings. If your partner or friend did or said something that hurt your feelings, you would pretend that everything is fine and you are over it. However, you are not over it at all. You’re angry because you’re so hurt. You will talk to others about what they did to you and how horrible they were for hurting you the way they did.
You are one of those people who will talk to anyone about the offense your partner or friend has done to you, but who will be nice to their face. Be careful, though, or they’ll find out you’ve been gossiping. You will then have to tell them how and why they hurt you.
Cancer – withdraws and becomes cold
Cancer, you know that you are incredibly moody, and that is your nature. You can be so caring that you put your needs on the back burner, or you can be cold and vindictive when your partner or friend hurts your feelings. When your feelings are hurt, you will withdraw and become very cold, and you may even give the cold shoulder or silent treatment to your partner or friend who has hurt your feelings.
You will also hold grudges so you won’t be so quick to let go of what happened. But once you’re ready to let your friend or partner back into your business, you’ll be back to your nurturing self. However, you will never forget the hurt feelings they caused you.
Leo – Gets dramatic
Leo, you know you’re the dramatic one, and that’s why when your partner or friend hurts you, you’ll be extremely dramatic about it. You will tell them in a malicious way what they did and how they hurt you, and you will also talk to them in a demeaning way.
Finally, they will have no choice but to apologize to you for hurting you in that way. You can even choose a public place to go out with them so that an audience is watching you, which will humiliate the person who hurt you. In turn, they may be angry with you for not talking to them about it calmly in a private setting.
Virgo – Confused and analytical
Virgo, you are very analytical and you strive for perfection, even if that is not realistic. However, you know that you have to settle for excellence, and that’s what you do if you want to develop relationships, whether romantic partnerships or friendships. However, when your partner or friend hurts you, you become confused.
You don’t understand how and why that would have happened as you analyze everything about it. And you even wonder if the relationship can be saved. That depends on the level of pain they caused you. When you see that they didn’t mean to hurt you and that it was an accident, you tell them how to never do that again.
Libra – Be distant and talk to others about the partner
Libra, you are the one who needs balance, peace and tranquility in your life. When you get hurt, you become internally unbalanced, causing you to become distant from the partner or friend who hurt you. You distance yourself from them, and at the same time you don’t like how it feels like you’ve been hurt.
That’s why you talk to other friends about how your partner or another friend hurt you. You gossip just like Gemini, but you also talk to others about the pain to ask for advice on how to deal with it. You do what you can to avoid conflict, which is why you would instead get advice from others on how to deal with it, rather than talking to the person who hurt you to find a solution.
Scorpio – can be vengeful
Scorpio, you are intense, and trusting others is a struggle. That’s why you don’t react well when your partner or friend hurts you. It takes a long time before you let them into your life because they have to earn your trust. However, if they betray you in any way, you become silent and may become vengeful in some way.
But of course that all depends on the level of pain they caused you. If it happened accidentally, you wouldn’t necessarily give them a free pass, but you will teach them a lesson one way or another. You may promise to do something, but then take it back, for example.
Sagittarius – Get argumentative
Sagittarius, you are the one who sees everyone as a happy person. But that’s not who you are when your partner or friend hurts you. You may find that some battles are worth picking, but others are not. And if your partner or friend hurts you, you don’t let it go.
Instead, you throw it back at them and become very argumentative. You’re the one telling the truth, and you’re blunt, so when you get hurt, you have a lot to say about it. It can even get to the point where you can fight until the middle of the night just to get hurt. That depends on whether or not you ultimately find a solution.
Capricorn – Hyper-focused on ambitions
Capricorn, you are the one who focuses on your ambitions, and you do everything you can to achieve your goals. However, you also want to make sure that you are there for your partner and friends. You want to excel in all areas of your life.
But unfortunately, when your partner or a friend hurts you, you become silent and cold, distancing yourself from them while focusing on your ambitions and work. You don’t give them the time of day. You won’t go back to them until you’re ready, and before you do, you’ll have a serious conversation with them about what they did to you that was unacceptable.
Aquarius – becomes detached and may disappear
Aquarius, you are the one who is distant, and at the same time you are progressive and like to do things your way. But you do want relationships because you still get lonely. However, if your partner or a friend hurts you, you will become even more distant and distant from them.
You give them the silent treatment or only have superficial conversations with them. You can even decide to disappear for a while if you want. However, if their actions still hurt you after a while, you may choose to do so out of the blue. Then you return to them on your terms.
Pisces – Becomes very insecure
Pisces, you are emotional as it is, and you are also dreamy. But unfortunately, you also have a tendency to blow things out of proportion. And if your partner or a friend hurts you, then that’s what you will do. You will get lost in melancholy and you may become very scared.
You can also quickly explode and accuse the person who hurt you of doing things he or she never did. That’s because you are very insecure. And because you are insecure, you feel attacked. Maybe the pain was intended, and you have a right to feel that way, but often it wasn’t, and in the end, you will be the one to apologize in that case.
No one likes to get hurt, and it doesn’t matter what your sign is. If you get hurt, you can deal with it in your own way. And you may find yourself distancing yourself from your partner or friend who hurt you, or you may calmly tell them that he or she has upset you, and chances are if your relationship is healthy, it won’t be the it was intended to happen this way. Understand that those who are comfortable with you will take out their frustrations on you, but that doesn’t mean it’s okay. You’ve probably done that too. They will apologize for the way they treated you, but it’s wise to have a calm conversation about it.
