The pendulum is a simple, but amazing spiritual tool. You can make one with string and a small stone, or buy one cut from crystal on a gold chain. Experimenting with different materials can result in stronger responses from the pendulum to your energy field, such as using silver instead of gold on the chain, or a green stone instead of a black one.
This article explains how to use a pendulum, and then how you can use it to determine the best place to live and love.
Preparing to use a sling
As mentioned in the introduction, you can make your own garland from string and a stone in your garden or from a garland you find on a walk. However, there are plenty of places to buy garlands online, with a wide variety of materials and designs. They are not very expensive; and if you want to delve deeply into using the tool, you can start with the one you like and then consider purchasing others based on colors and types of stones.
In general, you can use any pendulum, but specific problems work well with specific stones. Malachite is excellent for financial matters and rose quartz for matters of the heart. Chances are, if your concern falls into a certain category, certain stones will respond strongly to the type of question. You should also test whether a stone reacts strongly to you.
Test and calibrate your pendulum
If you can go to a store and test the pendulum, or if you can afford to buy several to test, you will find that some stones respond strongly to you, while others do not. Before you ask anything of the crank, you want to make sure you have a good grip on it. I recommend resting your elbow on a surface and using your non-dominant hand to hold the crank on the string or chain. Place your dominant hand under your forearm to keep your arm stable so you don’t affect the movement of the pendulum.
All you have to do for your first test is make a yes or no statement that you know is yes or no. After making the statement, wait for the pendulum to respond. It rotates clockwise or counterclockwise, or moves back and forth or back and forth. All you want to observe is the force of the movement. Test the pendulums until you find the one with the strongest response, keeping in mind that you may get a different movement with each new pendulum.
It does not matter which direction the pendulum moves to represent the truth or falsity of the statement, only that the movement is forceful. Once you know which pendulum gives you the strongest response, you’ll want to calibrate it by making a series of true statements and false statements. You also need to ask the pendulum to show you ‘maybe’, which is different from neutral, which is no action.
Finally, it is important to energetically cleanse your pendulum before using it seriously. You can buy a sage spray, place it in a glass with salt or bury it in soil (a plant pot). If you are using the salt or soil process, it is ideal to let a new garland rest in the salt and soil for 24 hours. Sage sprays work much faster and are available online.
Finding a romantic partner
If someone is looking for someone special, you can use the pendulum in multiple ways depending on your circumstances. Suppose you are joining the dating pool for the first time or are returning to the dating pool after a break. How should you do it? What process or processes would work best for you? Should you do online dating? Should you encourage friends and colleagues to put you in touch with someone? What about trying to meet someone in person, especially during the current lockdown and stay-at-home orders in many US states and countries of the world?
Take your swing through as many different ways of dating as possible and see which ones give you a “yes” and which ones are a “no”. And with the ‘yes’ responses, pay attention to the strength of the response. One approach may be more in line with your energy and capabilities. If you get a “yes” to online dating, you should visit each site and test it with your crank. You may get a solid yes for OK Cupid and a resounding no for eHarmony.
Once someone contacts you or you contact them and they respond, an energy thread has been cast. With the coupling in energy you can test the connection with your pendulum. You may have a strong “go for it” or “danger, danger” response, but you may also have a “maybe” and neutral (no move) response. The first two are easy to handle, but the last two require more swinging motion or involve a sense of adventure.
Keep in mind that there are two levels of interaction that need to happen to find a potential romance. It can be great to get pendulum support for email and video exchanges, but you’ll still want to use your pendulum after you meet in person. Great on screen but not so popular in real life happens far too often, which is why the best dating advisors will tell you to get acquainted as soon as possible. If you develop an intellectual-emotional connection before you figure out whether you like the person’s scent, you could both be in for a difficult experience.
Extrasensory sensor
We all have psychic abilities and intuition, but our rational minds can certainly get in our way. Think of the pendulum as a kind of sensor that you can check when you don’t trust your own inner guidance. After all, a garland fits easily in your pocket or bag, so you can take it out and use it during the date or right after, while the energy is still fresh between you and your date.
This psychic tool is one of the simplest in design but the most powerful in action, especially if you spend time working with your pendulum to ensure it is a finely tuned sensor that will aid you in your search for love .
