Suffering from a broken heart? You are not alone. Heartbreak is an epidemic these days and it is one of the most painful experiences anyone can ever go through. We could all use a few extra tools to help us get through it. Astrology is one such tool. Sure, you’ve heard all about compatibility and which sign goes with it, but astrology isn’t just limited to matchmaking. No, the wisdom of the stars and planets can tell us a lot about all romantic experiences – the good, the bad and the ugly.
Astrology can even guide you when it comes to healing your broken heart, giving you helpful tips and insights on how to deal with it and what you can do to make it a little more manageable. So read on to discover the best way to heal your broken heart and open yourself up to new love.
How to Heal Your Broken Heart If You:
A ram
Aries tend to fall in love hard and fast. Passionately idealistic and romantic, you can quickly become despondent and deflated if your romance isn’t a fairy tale. You fight for your loved one to the death, but once it’s over, you know. You’ll be happy to hear that healing your broken heart is as quick as it was to fall in love. All you need is a little patience and trust that as soon as the next new romantic opportunity arises, you will forget about your ex completely. Going to the gym will also be a lifesaver for you. Becoming healthy and strong will not only make you feel good, but also boost your ego and heal your broken heart.
A bull
Taurus doesn’t really do breakups well, and you know it. It takes ages to let go while you are in the relationship, nevermind then. You may have to stay in bed for a few months, shopping online, eating your favorite sweet things, and watching reruns of childhood shows. You might even text your ex and try again, which is just not a good idea, and you know it. But once you go through your process, you move on – forever. You know that once you realize that it was never for the best, you will get your power back. Plus, you won’t be in the market for long; After all, you are ruled by the love planet Venus. Get back on the dating scene ASAP!
The Twins
One of the best qualities of the Gemini sign is your ability to embrace change. You know, no matter how painful a breakup is, new opportunities await you. That said, you’re still creating a lot of drama. Late night “I miss you” texts and clever plans to make sure you’re at the same events as your ex are not unusual for you. You can take things out, sometimes just for entertainment – or to avoid your painful feelings. It’s a better idea to write a letter to your ex every day, if you want, and keep it in a locked box. Of course, don’t send anything. This will help you process everything without getting messy.
A cancer
Oh dear Cancer. Breaking up really isn’t your thing, right? It costs you a lot to let go in the first place, and then comes the journey of actually moving through the breakup. Like Taurus, you will spend a lot of time crying and processing. It’s an emotional experience for you, and you may even find yourself looking through old photos and crying about your special memories for months to come. The best way to deal with this pain is to go within and comfort your inner child through therapeutic activities. Spend plenty of time at home with your family and those who love you. Be creative and bake, garden or come up with new recipes. With time, you will fall in love again.
A lion
As a strong sign, you hide your pain and tell everyone that you are doing well. You may even walk around with your head held high and say it’s their loss. But at the same time, Leo will be in pain deep inside. The feeling of rejection is intense for you, unless you are the one causing the breakup (in which case you should be a lot less emotional!). To get over your ex, you need to go out, dance, party and generally enjoy the attention of people who do the same Doing deserve your time, energy and loyalty. Eventually you will realize that there was always someone better for you. Oh – and don’t forget to shop ’til you drop! That will help too.
A virgin
The way Virgo best deals with a breakup is to go to therapy and deal with it. Reading self-help books also helps because it gives you a deeper insight into the mistakes you’ve made, as well as the mistakes of your ex. Perspective is important to you, otherwise you can fool yourself a little too much. What you will also notice is that you become very, very healthy. Detoxing is a fantastic way to focus your energy on what you do can check. Plus, there’s nothing like a sexy, well-nourished body and clear skin to make you feel on top of the world again, right? Right!
A scale
No one likes breakups, least of all you. However, because you are such a hot asset, you rarely stay sad for long. You know that with a snap of your charming fingers, someone new will come and steal your heart. Getting back on the dating scene is the quickest and easiest way to heal your broken Libra heart – all you have to do is fall in love again and have some fun. And even if you don’t fall in love, it’s still great to flirt and be flirted with. One word of will: Texting your ex “one last time” will only complicate your life. You have been warned.
A Scorpio
The best way to heal your broken Scorpio heart is to kill your ex and bury him. A joke! But also: no joke. It is difficult for you to deal with the end of a relationship. Sometimes you wish you could just disappear, or that they would. Stalking your ex on social media is a terrible idea, so don’t do it. You’re just prolonging the pain. The best way to heal is to completely exclude, block, and unfriend them so you aren’t tempted to stalk. You also like the idea of revenge, and the best revenge is to be happy no matter what your new relationship status is. So – fake it until you make it.
A Sagittarius
Breaking up is so boring, isn’t it? They kill all the fun in your life, and there’s nothing worse than not having fun. The easiest way to move on and make your life an adventure again is to keep going on an adventure. Book that plane ticket, go on that road trip, take that trip, Sagittarius! It will do you a lot of good to reconnect with what you are passionate about. Having a spiritual and philosophical outlook will also bring you faster healing, and perhaps even help you forgive, forget, and move on with an open heart. And finally, being physically active, like going surfing, trail running or hiking, is just what the doctor ordered!
A Capricorn
You’ve probably already guessed what it is that helps a Capricorn overcome heartbreak. Yes, it’s work. Lots and lots of work. After a breakup, you will push yourself to the limit because you know that being distracted is the best way to avoid all those terrible feelings. You might even take on an extra job, or decide that you need a strict training schedule to fit your intense work schedule. Over time, the pain will become less and less, and you will be able to relax more and start dating again. Trust the process.
An Aquarius
The truth is, it’s not as difficult for Aquarius as it is for some other zodiac signs to get over a breakup. Once you know that your feelings are dead, or that the other person no longer likes you, you will move on quite quickly. That is, you go from lovers to friends in the blink of an eye, feeling like it’s probably better either way. And if you do have a wave of big feelings, just go out and party with your best friends, or arrange a nice get-together. Your tribe will get you through this, and you know it. All you have to do is reach out and ask.
A Pisces
Pisces don’t do breakups very well, just like all other water signs. But what you know do Working for you in a breakup means literally swimming away from everything. Not talking to your ex for a few months is the best and fastest way to heal because it gives you time to process your emotions. It also helps if you have that healthy escapes, such as reading, swimming, nature, music or art. Avoid the unhealthy stuff – drinking, smoking, binge eating and so on, as this only locks the pain in and doesn’t allow it to leave your body and psyche. You may find that working with energy healers also helps you release intense feelings in a gentle way.